If you or someone you know has gone through a battle with Cancer or Aids or other such diseases then you know how hard it is on the person suffering and on the family and loved ones of that person.
At the State House tomorrow afternoon, the Joint Committee on the Judiciary will begin debating whether to follow the leads of Oregon, Washington State and Montana and implement a so-called Death With Dignity law. It would allow Bay State residents for whom time and luck is running out to choose to end their suffering by ingesting a prescribed medical cocktail.
In a State that has a very high Catholic population, I am very surprised that there have not been more discussions on this bill. I have seen first hand on several occasions what cancer does to a person and the physical and emotional toll it takes on a family.I saw my cousin who was my age suffer the ravages of Aids and watched the toll it took on his family as well has the love and devotion to care that was given to him by them. It is so hard for that person who is in so much pain but wants to make those around them feel at ease. For the caregiver or family member watching you’re loved one literally shrink before your eyes is a painful, gut wrenching process.
It has moments of joy, the sick person expressing their love for you and all you have done and heartache as the person you love can no longer hold your hand, kiss you or even take a sip of water. I’ve seen or heard of a young wife and mother with more love, compassion and strength then I’ll ever have watch her husband lose his battle with cancer. A son day’s before his 18th birthday saying goodbye to his mom who fought cancer and made sure she was there for his high school graduation before she slipped away.
Is it fair to make a person suffer when the medical community can give you something that ends your suffering? In Oregon, 401 terminally ill patients have chosen to die on their terms since 1997, according to the Death With Dignity National Center.
Will Massachusetts become the fourth state to allow this?
Why has there not been more discussion and talk on this bill. It is one that screams for long open, honest debate.
I’m hoping that the Legislature takes its time and listens to those who have lost loved ones. Both those in favor and those opposed. To those who are battling a disease who want to end their suffering to to those who want to fight their sickness to the end.
Suffering and the toll these diseases take on a person cannot be something that gets a half-hour courtesy listen. This Bill needs to be strongly considered and given a fair chance, all who want to participate need to be heard.